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The Slow Drift Is Real
Maybe you can't quite name it, but you feel yourself slowly pulling away from the faith and community you once loved. It doesn't happen all at once — it happens gradually through seasons of hurt, exhaustion, or quiet disconnection.
Without a better way forward, many people eventually step away from church altogether, even while still loving Jesus.
"You've been showing up, but deep down you know something isn't right."
Broken
You feel unseen, wounded, or let down by the very people and places that were supposed to be safe.
Burnt Out
You've been pouring out for so long that you have nothing left, and you're running on empty.
Bored
You go through the motions, but your heart isn't in it anymore — your gifts feel unused and your faith feels dull.
You're Not Alone in This
As someone who has spent my whole life in church, I've experienced seasons of feeling broken, burnt out, and bored. At one point, I looked back and asked myself, "Why have I stayed connected when so many others have drifted away?"
I started writing down the specific actions and rhythms that had kept me spiritually healthy and connected to community over the years. What emerged was a simple, repeatable framework.
That's why I developed the 6 Unquittable Actions — a grace-filled approach that helps individuals build healthier community and spiritual rhythms.
— Jon Collier, Author & Founder
A Clear Path Forward
These six practices give us a clear, repeatable way to bring healing, rest, and purpose back into our lives. They're not complicated theories — they're proven, gospel-centered steps that help you walk with wisdom, create safety, protect your capacity, and keep your heart engaged for the long haul.
Actively Listen
Create space to be honest with God and safe people about what you're feeling
Encourage Speaking
Find the courage to name your pain, doubts, and disappointments instead of staying silent
Monitor Workload
Pay attention to your capacity and stop serving from depletion
Give Rest
Build rhythms of Sabbath and soul care instead of constant striving
Discover Passion
Reconnect with the gifts and purposes God has placed in you
Allow Engagement
Step back into community and service from a place of health and desire, not pressure
This has helped so much
"For a long time, I couldn't even name what I was feeling. I just knew something was off. Going through the Becoming Unquittable material helped me realize I wasn't broken or angry... I was simply bored. For the first time in years, I've started rediscovering purpose and connection in my faith again."
"I actually started going through this because a friend needed it. But as we worked through it together, I realized I had my own areas of brokenness that I had never really dealt with. It ended up being healing for both of us."
"I had been away from church for a few years. I still believed in Jesus, but I had no desire to go back. This book and workshop helped me gently process what happened and begin rebuilding my spiritual health. I'm not fully back in a church yet, but I feel like I'm finally moving forward instead of staying stuck."
You Don't Have to Stay Stuck
You've carried this long enough. Whether you're still in church or have already stepped away, there is hope for healing, rest, and reconnection.
You're not too far gone. And you don't have to figure this out alone.
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